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"Play is invaluable in returning a sense of safety, normalcy, and health." Courtney, KaBOOM! Project Manager
In November KaBOOM! launched its first guest blogging contest, asking parents to muse about their experiences with play. We received lots of entries, and while it was tough, managed to narrow it down. Over the next ten weeks we will be publishing the top ten, and we hope you enjoy reading them as much as we did! Congratulations to all of our winners. In 7th place is Myrdin Thompson from Louisville, Kentucky…
I am not a helicopter parent. I don’t hover. Not over homework. Not over fashion choices. Not over meals. And definitely not when it comes to play.
When I take my daughter to the park, I let her loose, to “free-range play.” Sure I scan the area, observant of all potential hazards: broken glass? Trash? Child who desperately needs a tissue? But I don’t hover. This is HER time. Not mine. Will she fall? Probably. She’s six and has legs like a gazelle and once her momentum gets going sometimes she gets off kilter. Does that mean a scraped knee or elbow, or even a bloody nose? Possibly. But that’s what anticeptic, bandaids and tissue are for (yeah, the tissue you want to give the walking plague you saw when you walked onto the playground but don’t want to interfere in someone else’s “parenting”).
Don’t misunderstand, free range play means establishing rules in advance of going to the playground:
It’s not easy, but after years of playground experiences with her two older brothers I learned a few things:
What is the purpose of play? Life complicated enough. Socks have to match, hair grows back slowly after your older brother has “helped” with a haircut, green veggies don’t taste good (even if they are good for you). If we don’t give our children the opportunity to navigate world when they are young, they will be less able to navigate it when they are on their own. Children need to be confident in their abilities, courageous in their choices, and criticial in their decision making. You can give them the tools, but you can’t live their lives. If I want her to dance like no one is watching, then I need to let her play “and forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair.” (Khalil Gibran).